How to Deal With Unintentional Parent Abuse

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I read this interesting article on NY Times about UPA (Unintentional Parent Abuse).

According to emergency room physicians, pediatricians and other experts, U.P.A. is no laughing matter. With unpredictable infants and toddlers, meals, bath time or even cuddles can go terribly wrong. Though statistics for injuries caused by young children are difficult to find, parents routinely suffer concussions, chipped teeth, corneal abrasions, nasal fractures, cut lips and torn earlobes, among other injuries.  ~nytimes.com

How do we avoid kid’s unintentional abuse to us, their parents? Here are some tips from the experts:

1. Trim their fingernails – You don’t want that pretty face scarred for a few weeks, or worse for life.
2. Don’t wear things that’s attention grabbing – Babies tend to be curious with anything and everything especially with glasses and earrings. So if you don’t want to get poked or lose an ear, you should stop wearing “interesting” things while taking care of your baby. 
3. Safe toys only – It’s better to give them educational toys instead of play guns, bow and arrows. Unless you want
4. Sleep well - “A well-rested parent will be more alert and more physically able to dodge the kick,” according to Debra S. Holtzman, author of The Safe Baby: A Do-It-Yourself Guide to Home Safety and Healthy Living.

can't follow simple instructions

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My son had his first Holy Communion last Friday. Since it's a solemn occasion, everyone was required to wear an appropriate attire. Men we're asked not to wear T-Shirts, dungarees and rubber shoes. Women shouldn't wear sleeveless shirts, dresses with plunging necklines, shorts and above the knee skirts.

worn by fashionista dad

A lot of the guests, mostly parents of the first communicants, didn't abide with the rules. One Dad even wore an entire outfit that disobeyed all the rules: T-Shirt, maong pants and rubber shoes.

This only shows that a lot of adults can't (or doesn't want to?) follow simple instructions.

who's fault is it? facebook!

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Gone are the days when my dad and mom doesn't even want to look at the computer. Now, my parent's who are now in their 60's, has become computer literate. They now know how to use a computer mouse, yay!

My dad is even willing to learn how to blog. I will introduce him to blogging and google adsense. I am sure he will earn more than me. He spends more time online than I do.